National Wedding Month!!

So apparently I need to start paying better attention to this kind of stuff. I just found out that February is National Wedding Month! So rather than offering some special and then only giving you one day to react, I have decided to extend National Wedding Month one more month and continue to celebrate through March by offering $300 my "Audrey" and "Marilyn" packages! For those not sure what that means, check out my website. Please contact me for a free consultation!

Have Your Cake & Eat It Too!

Or have something else!


One of the top trends for 2010 is to break all trends. Who says you have to have a wedding "cake"? Now we have all seen wedding cupcakes by why not wedding pies? This is such a great idea for a casual backyard wedding or a warm holiday wedding. It really brings you back home and brings a reminder of family traditions and down home values.


Now... What about those of you who are fun loving, maybe just a little bit goofy? How about donuts? Yes I said donuts! Pile them into a tiered tower to take the shape of a "traditional" wedding cake or hand them out as to your guests as favors.


Or who says you have to choose just one? You can combine your love of all things sweet (including your fiancé) into one large dessert buffet! Have petit fours, candied apples, chocolate mousse, tarts, crème brûlée, chocolate fountain, or any other delicious favorites of you and your fiancé!

Simply, let your imaginations run wild. Just because Emily and Peggy Post say one thing, doesn't mean that is the only way!

Eco-Fetti!

Be bright and cheery and still allow for a bright and cheery planet! Check out Eco-Confetti! There are a couple different versions of this. One just washes away with the next rain fall or a quick hose down and is completely biodegradable. Another is emplanted with wildflower seeds so when it is tossed it will then grow into beautiful wildflowers!

When providing anything for your guests to throw, be sure to check with your venue first, especially with the wildflower confetti.

You can buy it here and here and here!

Let Those Who Stand By You In Life, Stand By You Today

As you stand at the alter about to marry the person of your dreams, you want those who are most important to you, who have always stood by you, to stand by your side on your wedding day as well. Well what if you are a woman and your best friend is a MAN! What about your brother who you have always been close to? Well, I guess you could always pawn them off on your groom if you want. But why? He is your best friend. Your brother. Break with "tradition" and honor your friends by having them support YOU! Here's how...

What should he wear?
Now, most men won't wear a bridesmaid's dress! (If they will, well, great! Saves you the trouble of reading the rest!) Dress your guy pals in similar attire to any attendents on your partner's side. Signify who's side he is on by using different color ties, vests, etc. He also does have to carry a bouquet either. Pin on a boutonneire that mimics the girls' bouquets.

What should she wear?
Now the same deal goes for any grooms who want to have female attendants. If she wants to wear a tux or a pant suit, that's fine. If she perfers a dress, you can match her to the rest of the girls, though this may cause some confusion. Best may be to dress her in the same color as the guys' tuxedos or suits.

What do we call them?
Here are a few title options for you:
Bridesman/Groomswoman
Bride's Witness/Groom's Witness
Man of Honor/Best Woman/Best Lady
Honor Attendant
Friend of Honor
Bride's Attendant/Groom's Attendant *This is my favorite! It works for everyone!

Now, what do they do?
Just because you may have an attendant who is of the opposite sex of you, their duties are the same as the rest of your attendants. As far as Bridal Showers and Bachelorette/Bachelor Parties, this may depend on their comfort level. Perhaps a co-ed Bridal Shower?

Hope this all helps! If you have more questions, just ask! Just remember to mix it up and make sure your wedding reflects you and ALL your relationships! Don't be afraid to do things a little bit different. You aren't a cookie cutter couple so why have a cookie cutter wedding!