Let Those Who Stand By You In Life, Stand By You Today

As you stand at the alter about to marry the person of your dreams, you want those who are most important to you, who have always stood by you, to stand by your side on your wedding day as well. Well what if you are a woman and your best friend is a MAN! What about your brother who you have always been close to? Well, I guess you could always pawn them off on your groom if you want. But why? He is your best friend. Your brother. Break with "tradition" and honor your friends by having them support YOU! Here's how...

What should he wear?
Now, most men won't wear a bridesmaid's dress! (If they will, well, great! Saves you the trouble of reading the rest!) Dress your guy pals in similar attire to any attendents on your partner's side. Signify who's side he is on by using different color ties, vests, etc. He also does have to carry a bouquet either. Pin on a boutonneire that mimics the girls' bouquets.

What should she wear?
Now the same deal goes for any grooms who want to have female attendants. If she wants to wear a tux or a pant suit, that's fine. If she perfers a dress, you can match her to the rest of the girls, though this may cause some confusion. Best may be to dress her in the same color as the guys' tuxedos or suits.

What do we call them?
Here are a few title options for you:
Bridesman/Groomswoman
Bride's Witness/Groom's Witness
Man of Honor/Best Woman/Best Lady
Honor Attendant
Friend of Honor
Bride's Attendant/Groom's Attendant *This is my favorite! It works for everyone!

Now, what do they do?
Just because you may have an attendant who is of the opposite sex of you, their duties are the same as the rest of your attendants. As far as Bridal Showers and Bachelorette/Bachelor Parties, this may depend on their comfort level. Perhaps a co-ed Bridal Shower?

Hope this all helps! If you have more questions, just ask! Just remember to mix it up and make sure your wedding reflects you and ALL your relationships! Don't be afraid to do things a little bit different. You aren't a cookie cutter couple so why have a cookie cutter wedding!